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Tamy Faierman M.D.'s avatar

Thanks, Margaret, for this comprehensive share about the inner critic.

It seems to be quite prevalent in so many of our lives, especially us overachieving types :)

Getting a handle on the 'voice in our head' is g game changer and long ago I learned a slightly radical approach to it : acceptance! Accept this inner critic , honor it, rather than trying to push it away.

After all, it's been trying to keep us safe all these years.

Much more to say about it, another time.

Thanks for bringing up this important and impactful topic.

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Stella Chibuike-Ezike's avatar

This is so profound. For me, it was mostly fear of failure, until I learnt to embrace "the minimum courage formula:" In essence, what is that one tiny thing I can do right now, despite being afraid? And this has kept me going.

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