Living The Army Values
Insight
Living the Army Values
I do not reference the Army Values as nostalgia.
I live them as a leadership standard.
They are not slogans to me.
They are behavioral commitments.
Loyalty
I am loyal to purpose, not to dysfunction.
Loyalty means I protect the mission and the people, not fragile egos or broken systems. If something undermines the standard, I address it. Silence is not loyalty. Alignment is.
Duty
I do what is required without theatrics.
I do not wait to be managed. I do not wait to be praised. I handle my responsibilities with discipline.
But I no longer confuse duty with depletion. My responsibility includes protecting my capacity to lead well.
Respect
Respect is not softness. It is clarity with dignity.
I treat people as capable adults. I set expectations. I enforce standards. I correct without humiliation.
Respect means I do not weaponize power, and I do not tolerate its abuse.
Selfless Service
I serve something bigger than myself.
But selfless does not mean self-erasing. I do not martyr myself for optics. Sustainable service requires boundaries, not burnout.
Service is powerful when it is chosen, not extracted.
Honor
Honor is alignment between what I say and what I do.
It means I do not compromise my values for proximity, access, or advancement. If I cannot defend the decision publicly, I do not make it privately.
My name stands for something consistent.
Integrity
Integrity is disciplined truth.
I tell the truth even when it is inconvenient. I own my mistakes without deflection. I correct misalignment without delay.
Integrity means my internal compass is stronger than external pressure.
Personal Courage
Courage is not noise. It is steadiness under pressure.
I speak when silence would protect me. I intervene when neutrality would cost someone else. I choose growth over comfort.
Courage is not reckless. It is responsible.
Living the Army Values now means this:
I lead with discipline.
I make decisions with clarity.
I hold the standard, especially when it would be easier not to.
And I do it without losing myself in the process.
That is how I integrate where I come from with how I lead now.
The values did not stay in uniform.
They evolved with me.
And when I live them fully, elevation is not aspirational.
It is operational.


Thank you for your service then and now Margaret 🩷